Psychology of Desire

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

Meet Your Desired Self

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Thu, 16 Jul 2026 14:30:26 GMT

For the past few years, I’ve found myself asking one question that I can’t seem to let go of.

Why do some versions of ourselves feel like coming home rather than becoming someone new?

Throughout my work as a psychology researcher, podcast host, and educator, I’ve spent thousands of hours exploring human desire—why we’re drawn to certain people, fantasies, relationships, and ways of being.

But over time, another question began to emerge.

What if our desires aren’t only telling us something about what we want...

What if they’re also revealing something about who we could become?

We spend our lives admiring certain people.

The confident leader.

The unapologetic artist.

The calm, grounded man.

The woman who walks into a room completely comfortable in her own skin.

We often assume we’re wishing we could be more like them.

But what if those qualities that we admire aren’t random?

What if they’re pointing towards parts of ourselves that have been hidden, suppressed, or simply waiting for permission to emerge?

The reason this work matters so deeply to me is because I didn’t arrive at it through theory alone.

Over the past several years (and arguably decades), I’ve experienced this process myself.

There were qualities I admired in other people that felt strangely out of reach.

As I began exploring different aspects of my identity, something unexpected happened.

Rather than feeling like I was becoming someone new, I gradually realised I was uncovering parts of myself that had always been there.

The recognition didn’t happen first.

It came later.

Only after giving myself permission to experiment, express different aspects of myself, and embody them did I begin to experience a deep recognition.

It was as though I was remembering rather than reinventing who I was.

I had the profound experience of connecting with aspects of myself I hadn’t felt since childhood.

It led to a complete change in how I view myself. I crafted the self that I truly desired and show up in the world entirely differently as a result.

As a psychology researcher, that experience left me with a question I couldn’t ignore:

What if this isn’t unique to me?

And it turns out, it isn’t.

That question has led me into years of reading, research, interviews, observation, and countless conversations, and it’s now becoming the foundation of a new piece of work I’m developing called...

The Desired Self™

The Desired Self™ is built on a simple but powerful idea:

The qualities we repeatedly admire, desire, or feel drawn towards in others often point us towards unrealised parts of ourselves.

Rather than creating an alter ego or reinventing yourself, The Desired Self™ explores a different possibility:

Perhaps the person you’re longing to become isn’t someone new at all.

Perhaps they’re someone you’ve always been.

To celebrate the beginning of this offering, I’m now opening a small number of Founding Sessions as I continue developing this framework.

The Desired Self™ Psychological Consultation

This is a private 90-minute video or audio consultation where we’ll explore:

The qualities and identities you’re repeatedly drawn to.
The patterns that appear across your life, relationships, work, and desires.
The strengths and capacities that may have been hidden or suppressed.
Practical ways to begin expressing and embodying more of who you already are.

By the end of our session, you’ll leave with:

A personalised map of your Desired Self.
Greater clarity about the qualities you’ve been overlooking.
Practical experiments to begin expressing these qualities in everyday life.
A personalised roadmap for your next stage of growth.

This isn’t therapy. It isn’t life coaching. And it isn’t about pretending to be someone else.

It’s a research informed psychological consultation designed to help you explore the possibility that the person you’re striving to become has been quietly waiting beneath fear, conditioning, expectations, or self doubt all along.

As these are founding sessions, I’ll only be working with a small number of people at a discounted rate while I continue researching and refining The Desired Self™ framework. There are only 5 on offer currently.

If something in this email resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you.

Simply reply with:

DESIRED SELF

I’ll send you all the details, answer any questions you have, and we can explore whether this experience is the right fit for you.

I’m incredibly excited about where this research is leading, and I’d love for a small group of you to help shape it from the very beginning.

Looking forward to meeting you!

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#116 The Psychology of Super Orgasms: Female Pleasure, Desire & Expanded Sexual Response with Mae

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 15 Jul 2026 14:36:15 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with down with Mae —educator, former professor, and creator whose work has placed her at the centre of thousands of deeply personal conversations about sexuality, fantasy, insecurity, and pleasure.

We explore:

Super orgasms and Expanded Sexual Response (ESR).
Male sexuality and vulnerability.
Consent, communication and respect.
Kink and human connection.
Sexual confidence.
Why pleasure matters more than performance.

Research article: Five Cases with Expanded Sexual Response (ESR).

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The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#115 The Psychology of Erotic Power: Midori on Shibari, Art & Desire

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sat, 11 Jul 2026 02:53:49 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I sit down with Midori—international sexuality educator, author, artist, and one of the pioneers who introduced Shibari and conscious BDSM to Western audiences.

Connect with Midori: planetmidori.com | fortefemme.com

We explore:

The psychology of Shibari.
Female dominance and leadership.
ForteFemme.
Creativity and eroticism.
Sexuality education.
The future of BDSM and Shibari.

Research article: Role Congruity Theory of Prejudice Toward Female Leaders.

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Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#114 The Science of Curiosity: Brats, Kink & Erotic Growth with That_Scientist

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Thu, 09 Jul 2026 03:19:33 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with That_Scientist to explore the psychology of curiosity, brat dynamics, bisexuality, kink education, and why asking better questions may be one of the most powerful tools we have for understanding desire.

We explore:

The psychology of curiosity.
Discovering bisexuality later in life.
BDSM and sexual health.
Asking better questions.
Self-discovery through kink.
Erotic psychology.

Research article: Sexual health promotion and sti prevention on the margins: kink, bdsm, and sexually adventurous women.

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Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#113 How to Learn BDSM Safely: Choosing the Right Kink Educator with AncillaL

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sat, 04 Jul 2026 01:26:08 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode educator and author AncillaL returns to the podcast to explore one of the most important—and surprisingly overlooked—topics in kink: BDSM education.

We explore:

How to choose a BDSM educator.
BDSM mentorship.
Communities of practice.
Skill-based vs role-based learning.
Education versus advertising.
Building critical thinking in BDSM.

Research article: Kink Community Education: Experiential Learning and Communities of Practice.

Connect with AncillaL:

https://fetlife.com/AncillaL
https://www.patreon.com/c/ancillal?vanity=user
https://www.instagram.com/ancillarykinksupport?igsh=MXYzeHBoZWliZjFmZw==

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Apply to be on The Erotic Realm podcast here.

Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#112 The Psychology of Switching with Matcha

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 01 Jul 2026 14:30:29 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with Matcha to explore the psychology of switching, the emerging FemDaddy archetype, BDSM identity, power exchange, and the freedom that comes from embracing every side of yourself.

We explore:

BDSM switches and switch identity.
FemDaddy dynamics.
Forced feminisation.
Gender expression in kink.
Communication and empathy.

Research article: “Switch it up”: A qualitative analysis of BDSM switches

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Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠

Apply to be on The Erotic Realm podcast here.

Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#111 The Psychology of Erotic Permission: Julieta Chiara on Submission, Shibari & Becoming Yourself

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Mon, 29 Jun 2026 00:08:08 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with sex therapist and Shibari practitioner Julieta Chiara to explore the psychology of submission, women’s desire, erotic permission, and the transformative power of saying “yes” to yourself.

We explore:

Women’s desire and sexual permission.
Submission and empowerment.
Shibari and Japanese rope bondage.
Why “your first Dom is you”.
Pain, presence, and transformation.

Research article: Are Role and Gender Related to Sexual Function and Satisfaction in Men and Women Practicing BDSM?

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Science-backed libido support

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- Desire supplement here.
  Enjoying the podcast? The Erotic Realm is an independent podcast and relies on support from listeners to continue. Become a paid subscriber today to help more erotic realms happen.

Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠

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Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#110 The Psychology of Ecstasy: Barbara Carrellas on Tantra, Desire & Human Flourishing

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 24 Jun 2026 01:27:26 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I sit down with legendary sexuality educator Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra and The Book of Ecstasy, to explore tantra, BDSM, conscious sexuality, erotic awakening, and the role pleasure plays in human flourishing.

We explore:

Sexual flourishing and wellbeing.
Non-genital orgasms.
Pleasure as a pathway to healing.
Emotional armour and vulnerability.
Sexuality during the AIDS crisis.
The Book of Ecstasy.

Research Artile: A new sexual wellbeing paradigm grounded in capability approach concepts of human flourishing and social justice.

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Innovative Sex Tech:

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Science-backed libido support

Flow supplement here.
- Desire supplement here.
  Enjoying the podcast? The Erotic Realm is an independent podcast and relies on support from listeners to continue. Become a paid subscriber today to help more erotic realms happen.

Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠

Apply to be on The Erotic Realm podcast here.

Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#109 The Mommy Domme: Nurturing Dominance, BDSM & the Psychology of Acceptance with Mistress Mira

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sun, 21 Jun 2026 12:04:54 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode of The Erotic Realm, I sit down with Mistress Mira — professional Dominatrix and Mommy Domme, to explore the psychology of nurturing dominance, BDSM stigma, erotic self-acceptance, and the surprising power of being fully seen.

We explore:

Mommy Dommes and nurturing dominance.
Professional domination vs lifestyle BDSM.
BDSM stigma and public misconceptions.
Neurodivergence, autism, ADHD and kink.
The psychology of erotic self-discovery.

Research article: Perceptions of and stigma toward BDSM practitioners.

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Innovative Sex Tech:

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Kiiroo here.
Luxus here.
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Science-backed libido support

Flow supplement here.
- Desire supplement here.
  Enjoying the podcast? The Erotic Realm is an independent podcast and relies on support from listeners to continue. Become a paid subscriber today to help more erotic realms happen.

Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠

Apply to be on The Erotic Realm podcast here.

Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#108 The Kink Curious Wife: Marriage, Desire & Erotic Self-Discovery with J

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Thu, 18 Jun 2026 07:34:52 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I sit down with J to explore a journey that began with curiosity and evolved into a deeper understanding of kink, intimacy, and erotic identity. Together we discuss her experiences in sex work, her fascination with the psychology of desire, and how joining FetLife to better understand other people’s kinks ultimately helped her discover parts of herself she hadn’t fully recognised.

We explore:

Kink curiosity and self-discovery.
Introducing a partner to BDSM.
Marriage and erotic exploration.
Sex work and the psychology of desire.
Ownership dynamics and intimacy.
Women’s pathways into kink.

Research book: Women and Kink.

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Luxus here.
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Science-backed libido support

Flow supplement here.
- Desire supplement here.
  Enjoying the podcast? The Erotic Realm is an independent podcast and relies on support from listeners to continue. Become a paid subscriber today to help more erotic realms happen.

Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠

Apply to be on The Erotic Realm podcast here.

Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#107 The Porn Star's Daughter: Unbound Desire, Identity & Sexual Freedom with Laila Ocean

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Mon, 15 Jun 2026 01:18:45 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with filmmaker and storyteller Laila Ocean to explore her unique experience of being the daughter of a porn performer, and how that shaped her understanding of sexuality, relationships, stigma, freedom, and desire.

Laila is currently creating Unbound, a documentary exploring sexuality, identity, and the human stories behind the adult industry. We discuss what it was like discovering her father’s profession, the assumptions people make about pornography, and how growing up around adult entertainment influenced her own erotic development.

Here is the International Documentary Association fundraising page to support Laila’s project: https://www.documentary.org/project/unbound-crowned-pleasure or connect with Laila on her Instagram @laila.ocean

We explore:

Growing up as the child of a porn performer.
Sexuality, stigma, and identity formation.
The making of the documentary Unbound.
Media narratives around sex work and porn.
Sexual freedom and cultural expectations.
Parenting, sexuality, and honest conversations.

Research Article: Adolescents and Pornography: A Review of 20 Years of Research.

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What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

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#106 Beyond Vanilla: An Asexual Dominatrix on Power, Discipline & Consent with Ms Hyde

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 10 Jun 2026 03:32:28 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with Ms Hyde — an asexual disciplinarian, BDSM educator, life coach, author, and craftsperson — to explore the psychology of power, discipline, communication, and consent.

We explore:

Asexuality and BDSM.
The psychology of discipline.
Therapeutic spanking and meaning-making.
Beyond Vanilla and BDSM education.
Repair, accountability, and relationship growth.
Why pleasure and power are not opposites.

Research Article: Making Sense of S&M: A Discourse Analytic Account.

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The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

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#105 The Nerdy Submissive: Kink, DnD & Neurodivergence with Sarah

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sat, 06 Jun 2026 02:04:40 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I sit down with Sarah—a self-described nerdy submissive to explore the intersection of kink, neurodivergence, fantasy, imagination, and hidden desire.

We explore:

The psychology of submission.
Neurodivergence and kink.
Dungeons & Dragons and erotic imagination.
Hidden desires and secret erotic worlds.
Non-extreme BDSM and everyday kink.
Fantasy, belonging, and finding your tribe.

Research article: The Prevalence of BDSM in Finland and the Association between BDSM Interest and Personality Traits.

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

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#104 The Rope Dominant: Shibari, Power & the Psychology of Surrender with Mark DeViate

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 03 Jun 2026 03:16:49 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I chat with Mark DeViate — Dominant, rope practitioner, polyamorous relationship veteran, and long-time member of the BDSM community, to explore the psychology of surrender, ethical dominance, and the transformative potential of connection-based kink.

We explore:

• The psychology of ethical dominance.

• Shibari, rope bondage, and surrender.

• Topspace, flow states, and altered consciousness.

• Performance-based kink vs connection-based kink.

• Long-term polyamory and relationship longevity.

Research article: The Biology of BDSM: A Systematic Review

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

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#103 The Trauma-Informed Mistress: Healing, Power and Kink with JDominatrix

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sat, 30 May 2026 14:30:56 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I sit down with JDominatrix, a trauma-informed kink educator, Mistress, sadist, and community leader, to explore one of the most debated topics in BDSM: the relationship between trauma, healing, and erotic power.

We explore:

Trauma-informed approaches to BDSM.
Can kink become part of healing?
Consent, trust, and ethical power exchange.
The psychology of Dominance and submission.
Running a dungeon and teaching kink.
Community, growth, and erotic empowerment.

Research article: Trauma-Informed Kink Healing

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The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

p.s Want to explore my writing?

The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#102 The Desired Older Woman: Aging, Noetisexuality & Erotic Reawakening with Brookiana

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 27 May 2026 14:31:20 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I’m joined by Brookiana to explore aging, erotic reinvention, and the psychology of becoming desired again.

We explore:

Noetisexuality and attraction to intellect and depth.
Aging, femininity, and erotic reinvention.
Returning to sexuality after abstinence.
Why younger men are drawn to emotionally mature women.
Writing erotica and reclaiming erotic identity later in life.

Research article: Sex and the (older) single girl: Experiences of sex and dating in later life.

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#101 The Ecology of Desire: Queer Eroticism, Nature & Connection with Sketchy

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sat, 23 May 2026 03:15:26 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I’m joined by Sketchy to explore the intersection of queer identity, biology, and erotic connection. We unpack the idea of “the ecology of desire” — where attraction, intimacy, and sexuality are not just internal experiences, but relational processes shaped by our connection to the world around us.

We explore:

The concept of the ecology of desire.
Queer erotics and nature as inherently diverse.
Biology, symbiosis, and intimacy.
Desire as relational rather than individual.
Kink, identity, and connection beyond the self.

Research article: Queer Ecologies: Sex, Nature, Politics, Desire.

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.

Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#100 The Choice to Be Owned: Slave Psychology with Daniika

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Wed, 20 May 2026 14:30:53 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode I’m joined by Daniika — a submissive, masochist, and self-described slave exploring the psychology of power, pain, and total surrender.

We explore:

The psychology of masochism and meaning in pain.
What “slave” and “ownership” actually mean in BDSM.
24/7 power exchange in real life.
Kink, identity, and the idea of orientation.
Neurodivergence, structure, and erotic regulation.

Research article: The Kink Orientation Scale: Developing and Validating a Measure of Kink Desire, Practice, and Identity.

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The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

#99 The Brat Submissive: Power, Play & the Psychology of Submission with Jade

Emma | Psychology of Desire — Sun, 17 May 2026 04:14:05 GMT

You can listen to this episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.

In this episode of I’m joined by Jade — a bisexual, bratty submissive navigating the psychological complexity of power, identity, and desire across both kink and swinging spaces.

We explore:

The psychology of brat energy and boundary play.
Submission as choice vs identity.
Kink vs swinging: key psychological differences.
Navigating marriage alongside a D/s dynamic.
Why people may already be engaging in BDSM without knowing it.

Research article: From Fantasy to Communication: BDSM Engagement, Sexual Experience Breadth, and Pleasure Deservingness Among College Women.

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The Psychology of Desire partners with aligned brands in the realms of psychology, sexuality, and symbolic transformation. Interested in sponsoring? Start here.

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The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:

Free Giveaway & What’s happening in the Psychology of Desire Realm: The Desire Dispatch #01– June Edition

The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams

The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think