I agree with the premise that sex does not equal mating, and that when ritual and the unexpected are removed and replaced by repetitive, predictable routine, things begin to go downhill. I suspect that as a result, some relationships may effectively have a built-in "sell by" date.
<< It is not uncommon for participants in BDSM to describe deeply erotic experiences that did not include the act of sex. >>
Of course! I have encountered masochists who either orgasmed or experienced immense arousal from pain, one woman who climaxed from bondage, and a number whose bizarre fetishes (e.g., garlic-play) led to sexual fulfillment without "sex" per se.
Thank you for a fascinating post! I have added *Mating in Captivity* to my TBR list!
Not falling into the trap of short-hand seduction is the challenge of long-term love. The play and enjoyment happens in the more nuanced moments between partners. It's a daily practice of presence and appreciation.
BTW, These days it's not hard to spot content that was lifted right off the page of an AI helper. Thanks for keeping it real as well as insightful.
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I agree with the premise that sex does not equal mating, and that when ritual and the unexpected are removed and replaced by repetitive, predictable routine, things begin to go downhill. I suspect that as a result, some relationships may effectively have a built-in "sell by" date.
<< It is not uncommon for participants in BDSM to describe deeply erotic experiences that did not include the act of sex. >>
Of course! I have encountered masochists who either orgasmed or experienced immense arousal from pain, one woman who climaxed from bondage, and a number whose bizarre fetishes (e.g., garlic-play) led to sexual fulfillment without "sex" per se.
Thank you for a fascinating post! I have added *Mating in Captivity* to my TBR list!
Not falling into the trap of short-hand seduction is the challenge of long-term love. The play and enjoyment happens in the more nuanced moments between partners. It's a daily practice of presence and appreciation.
BTW, These days it's not hard to spot content that was lifted right off the page of an AI helper. Thanks for keeping it real as well as insightful.