Welcome to Psychology of Desire.

I’m Emma. It’s a pleasure to welcome you to my realm.

My creations are for those who are curious about the nature of their desire and eroticism.

Think of me as your personal Desire Architect, guiding you through the terrain of your erotic mind.

I believe to Desire and be Desired is a pivotal human experience.

But we aren’t taught anything about Desire.

I’m on a mission to change that.

Want to know more about me? Check out my desire story here.

My current projects include:

  • Exploring the Psychology of Darker Desires in The Erotic Realm Podcast (top 5% Sexuality podcast).

  • Mapping the Landscape of Erotic Dreams and Fantasies in the Deep Desire Project.

  • Exploring how we define and think about the female orgasm in the Her Climax Code Project.

  • Creating courses to “Activate Your Desire” and “Decode My Desire”- grab the highly discounted presale of them both here.

  • I also offer 1:1 Deep Dive Desire Coaching by application.

  • Become a paid subscriber and receive access to my full archive of posts plus my one page free PDF guide: The Desire Threshold: A reflective entryway into the architecture of your erotic psyche

Thanks for being here and creating a home for desire with me.

Emma — The Voice of Desire Psychology

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm Podcast

“Desire isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a language to decode.”

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Psychology of Desire reaches over 5,000 curious minds on Substack and over 20,000 minds across platforms. People who are exploring the deeper dimensions of sexuality, identity, and erotic psychology.

My readers include therapists, kink practitioners, educators, creatives, researchers, and erotic explorers from 148+ countries and 50 U.S states — all drawn to conversations that combine depth, science, symbolism, and shadow.

With 35,000+ streams in just 6 months (as of June), The Erotic Realm is outpacing 97% of new podcasts. The Erotic Realm is on track to pass 100K streams by the end of 2025!

I collaborate with brands and creators aligned with themes like:

  • Psychological and erotic exploration

  • Sexual wellness and pleasure-positive tools

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Whether you offer a product, service, event, or experience that resonates with my audience — I’m open to discussing meaningful sponsorships, affiliate partnerships, and creative collaborations.

To chat more about collaboration email Emma at:
emma@psychologyofdesire.com

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