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#06 From Fan Fiction to Submission: An Erotic Writer’s Journey Into Kink
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#06 From Fan Fiction to Submission: An Erotic Writer’s Journey Into Kink

What happens when fantasy turns into reality?

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In this episode I sit down with Kay, an erotic fiction writer who discovered her submissive nature through fan fiction.

Now, she explores real-life submission while navigating a vanilla marriage and a dynamic with her Dominant.

We discuss:

  • How writing fan fiction led her to explore real-life BDSM.

  • The differences between fantasy submission and lived experiences.

  • How submission and BDSM help regulate her mental health.

  • Balancing a vanilla marriage with an active kink life.

  • The psychology behind storytelling, power exchange, and erotic identity.

Research Paper: Perception Correction: Addressing Social Stigmatization Around BDSM and Mental Health.

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