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In this episode I sit down with Kay, an erotic fiction writer who discovered her submissive nature through fan fiction.
Now, she explores real-life submission while navigating a vanilla marriage and a dynamic with her Dominant.
We discuss:
How writing fan fiction led her to explore real-life BDSM.
The differences between fantasy submission and lived experiences.
How submission and BDSM help regulate her mental health.
Balancing a vanilla marriage with an active kink life.
The psychology behind storytelling, power exchange, and erotic identity.
Research Paper: Perception Correction: Addressing Social Stigmatization Around BDSM and Mental Health.
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Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm



