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The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.
In this episode I’m joined by Kim — MJ’s Girl, who shares the story of her 21-year Master/slave relationship with Master Joe, and what happened to love, submission and identity after his death.
We explore:
What 21 years in a Master/slave relationship taught Kim about love and submission.
The difference between being a slave and a submissive.
Why this fiercely independent woman chose to give one particular man her submission.
The psychology of collaring, ownership and erotic identity.
What happens to a slave identity after the death of a Master.
How continuing bonds may help us understand carrying a BDSM relationship forward through grief.
Research article: Internalized versus externalized continuing bonds: Relations to grief, trauma, attachment, openness to experience, and posttraumatic growth.
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Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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The Female Orgasm Demystified | Psychology of Desire: Case File #3
Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.
Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
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What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
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