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#120 Healing Your Erotic Self: Big Bear Hug on Trauma, Boundaries & Belonging
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#120 Healing Your Erotic Self: Big Bear Hug on Trauma, Boundaries & Belonging

What happens when healing from trauma changes the way you understand your desires?

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The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.


In this episode I chat with with Big Bear Hug to explore the psychology of trauma, boundaries, erotic identity, and the lifelong process of becoming ourselves.

We explore:

  • The relationship between trauma and desire.

  • Learning healthy boundaries inside and outside kink.

  • Navigating triggers within BDSM spaces.

  • Finding a kink-aware therapist.

  • Becoming a “Desire Fulfilment Entity”.

  • Belonging beyond labels.

Research article: Questioning Gender and Sexual Identity in the Context of Self-Concept Clarity, Sense of Coherence and Value System.


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Emma

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