The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.
In this episode I’m joined by Ayzad, a pioneering Italian BDSM educator, author and kink coach with more than thirty years of experience, to explore the dark side of BDSM, toxic kink culture, power dynamics and the psychology of consent.
We explore:
The dark side of BDSM and toxic kink culture.
How to distinguish consensual BDSM from psychological abuse.
Power dynamics, manipulation and the limits of consent.
Why good intentions don’t always prevent harmful behaviour.
What has changed as BDSM has become more mainstream.
The psychology behind unhealthy kink relationships and community dysfunction.
Research article: Sexual Violence and Nonconsensual Experiences Among Alt-Sex Communities’ Members.
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Thanks for listening!
Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
The Psychology of Desire Case File Series:
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
The Female Orgasm Demystified | Psychology of Desire: Case File #3
Mating in Captivity and the Lost Rituals of Desire: What modern relationships forgot about mating.
Auralism: The Psychology of Erotic Sound: Why Do Some People Hear Desire?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
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