Price Change Coming — Lock in Your Legacy Rate for Life
Two weeks to join at the lowest rate you’ll ever see
Hello Desire Explorers,
For those new here welcome. I’m so happy you are here!
There is ALOT happening in the Psychology of Desire realm, I am putting a huge amount of work in behind the scenes to bring you new discoveries from the frontiers of erotic psychology.
To reflect that I am making some changes and I am inviting you along for the ride.
The following is something I’ve never done before — and probably won’t do again for a very long time.
In two weeks, I’ll be raising the price of a paid subscription to Psychology of Desire from $5/month to $14/month (or from $50/year to $140/year USD).
This isn’t about money. It’s about fuelling a mission that matters to me — and to thousands of readers and listeners around the world:
humanising kink, deepening the conversation around eroticism, and exploring desire in all its forms — from the conscious to the unconscious, the celebrated to the taboo.
Loyalty Lock-In
If you’re already a paid subscriber, nothing changes. You’ll keep your current lower rate for life, as long as you remain subscribed.
If you upgrade to paid before September 10th, you’ll also lock in that $5/month (or $50/year) rate forever.
Why the Change?
Since launching, I’ve:
Published original erotic psychology research you won’t find anywhere else.
Created and shared new frameworks like the Desire Activation Model™ and Golden Erotic Shadow™.
Brought you intimate, globally charting podcast conversations — The Erotic Realm is now in the top 5% of sexuality podcasts worldwide.
Given people a place to reflect on their erotic selves without shame or fear of judgement.
Offered my first course Activate Your Desire FREE to paid subscribers (a saving of $77!)
This work takes time, research, and care. The new price reflects its true value and brings me in line with other top Substacks in my field.
What’s Coming for Paid Members
The Psychology of Desire Case Files
Investigative deep-dives into the erotic mind. Each Case File explores one facet of human sexuality — whether a fetish, fantasy, or psychological theme — through:
Science: peer-reviewed research, neuroscience, psychophysiology.
Symbolism: archetypes, myths, and cultural narratives.
Lived Experience: stories and interviews from real people.
Meaning: what it reveals about the deeper architecture of desire.
You can check out the very first Psychology of Desire: Case File where I unpacked the neuroscience and psychology of foot fetishism here.
Next:
The Female Orgasm — myth-busting new research, and why attention might be the missing link (informed by real research from over 200 of you who took the Her Climax Code survey!).
Cuckolding — psychological drivers, symbolic layers, and cultural taboos.
Healing Through Sexuality — eroticism as a pathway for integration, resilience, and growth.
and many more..
The Unspoken Desires Series
A raw, intimate series revealing the hidden fantasies, confessions, and real-life stories that shape our erotic lives. Some are mine, some will be yours, all will be somewhat uncomfortable but revealing.
The first unspoken desire series was about a Consent Violation I experienced from a woman.
Coming soon:
The fantasies we don’t admit we are into.
My own story of the time I was in a sex cult (and liked it!) — and what it taught me about power, pleasure, and belonging.
a lot more…
The Her Climax Code Project
An original research project mapping women’s orgasm experiences, with results that will challenge myths, expose surprising patterns, and explore how psychology, physiology, and erotic context intersect.
Paid members will get the first look at the full findings and the Psychology of Desire Case File it inspires.
The Deep Desire Project
A global archive mapping erotic dreams and fantasies across cultures. We’re exploring both the unconscious (dreams) and the conscious (fantasies) dimensions of desire, to reveal patterns that have never been documented before.
Paid members will see the first cultural analyses, with breakdowns by country, gender, and theme plus a lot more.
Other perks for paid members:
Discounts on upcoming courses like The Golden Erotic Shadow™ and Decode My Desires™
Behind-the-scenes podcast insights and unreleased audio
and access to whatever new ideas I come up with (I have so many courses and psychology of desire case files ready to write!).
I trust you feel that all of this work is worth way more than the price of a coffee ($5) a month, and you now understand why I am raising my prices soon.
The Deadline
On September 10th, the price increase will go live for all new members.
Upgrade now to secure the lower rate for life — and join me in building a more honest, human conversation about sex, kink, and desire.
Thank you so much for your understanding and support and for helping to create a home for desire with me.
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm podcast