Most “low libido” isn’t low libido at all
2 days to reframe your “low libido” for good
Most people are taught to measure desire in one way:
You either feel “in the mood”… or you don’t.
But what if that’s not how your erotic mind works?
What if your desire isn’t broken… it’s just that you’ve only been speaking one language to it?
In my research, I’ve found there are activation styles — unique ways that our erotic mind wakes up.
For some, desire is like a match: a single spark and it’s there.
For others, it’s more like embers that need kindling — mood, context, connection, or sensory cues to ignite.
When your activation style isn’t being spoken to, it’s easy to think something is wrong with you or your relationship.
In my Desire Survey, so many people shared stories of years spent believing they had “low libido”…
Only to realise later they just needed the right invitation for desire to arrive.
Think of it like love languages:
If your love language is quality time, but all you get is gifts, you’ll feel unseen.
When you finally speak the right language to your desire, everything changes.
That’s why I created Activate Your Desire — a step-by-step mini-course to help you:
• Identify your personal activation style
• Speak directly to it with practical, repeatable tools
• Understand your partner’s style so you can both feel deeply desired
Special Launch Offer: For the next 2 days only, if you join Psychology of Desire as an annual subscriber for only $50, you’ll get lifetime access to Activate Your Desire™ completely free as a bonus.
As an annual subscriber you receive:
Subscriber-only posts and full archive
Early access to surveys exploring erotic psychology
Discounts on upcoming courses
Access to the Psychology of Desire Chat
That’s over $125 worth of value for only $50!
After this 2-day window, the course will be sold separately for $77 USD — and the free bonus will be gone.
Your desire isn’t missing — it’s just waiting for the right conditions.
Once you know your style, you can stop waiting for desire to “just happen”… and start creating it, intentionally.
Inside the 6 modules, you’ll discover:
The Desire Crisis – Why desire feels mysterious and what’s really happening.
The Desire Activation Model™ – Your personal template for awakening desire.
7 Myths of Desire – The hidden beliefs that keep you turned off.
Case Studies of Desire – Real-world examples that bring the model to life.
Desire Barriers – The mental, emotional, and environmental blocks you can dissolve.
Desire in Relationships – How to navigate differences and activate your partner’s desire.
I’m so excited to share these learnings with you and help you move from a passive consumer of your arousal… to an active creator of your desire.
I’ll see you in the course when you’re ready.
Wishing you a life full of desire,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
“Desire isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a language to decode.”