Ready to Activate Your Desire?
FREE for 3 days only - Activate Your Desire Mini Course.
Hi there desire explorer,
I want to tell you a story — about the moment that changed the way I understood desire, and why it might change yours too.
It started on a walk.
Along the beach.
Just me, the ocean, and a question I couldn’t stop turning over in my mind:
Why do so many people feel like their desire is broken?
I’d spent years reading research and teaching models like “Spontaneous vs. Responsive” desire. But the more I listened to real people and tuned into my own erotic experiences — the more I felt something was missing.
These models told us when desire might show up.
But they didn’t explain how it actually turns on.
The old model was based in gendered framing and suggested that spontaneous desire was the natural way of being.
And then it hit me:
Desire doesn’t just show up. It activates — differently for each one of us.
That’s when I began to create the Desire Activation Model™ — a way to understand your unique erotic wiring, and finally stop chasing someone else’s version of desire.
Inside my new course, Activate Your Desire, you’ll uncover your personal activation style.
To celebrate the launch of the course I’m offering it as a free bonus for all new and current annual subscribers to Psychology of Desire.
This offering is for 3 days only! After 3 days the course will return to it’s full price of $77.
It’s my way of saying thank you for supporting this work at the deepest level.
Claim your free course here:
In this course you’ll learn:
The Desire Activation Model™ Forget the Spontaneous vs. Responsive binary. Meet the revolutionary new desire styles that break the myths of desire.
A clear path to turn your desire back on Each style gets a tailored technique you can try right away whether you’re turned off, overwhelmed, or yearning to reconnect.
Why your blocks are actually keys Shame. Disconnection. Mismatch. They’re not because you’re broke, they are misunderstood signals from a deeper part of your erotic self.
How to communicate your style to your partner Easy to remember communication techniques that allow you to activate your desire with your partner.
And more…
This course is for you if…
You’ve ever felt like your desire is “broken”
You’re confused by how your desire works (or doesn’t)
You want a clear, elegant framework for understanding your erotic mind
You’re tired of models that don’t match your lived experience
You'll receive:
6 Audio Modules
6 Slide Modules
Activate Your Desire Course Workbook
This is your invitation to stop pathologising your desire—and start activating it, on your own terms.
You are not broken. You are just wired uniquely. And that wiring is worth understanding.
“Desire isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a language to decode.”
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm