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In this episode of I sit down with Stephen, a 36-year-old sadomasochistic switch who spent 20 years in monogamous relationships before discovering his true desires.
Now living 24/7 in a polyamorous M/s dynamic, he shares how BDSM transformed his understanding of power, intimacy, and self-acceptance.
We discuss:
The turning point after 20 years of monogamy and the path to self-discovery
The psychology of power dynamics in BDSM and everyday life
How pain enhances intimacy and the mental health benefits of kink
Navigating polyamory and the complexities of a multi-partner household
Research Paper: Psychological Characteristics of BDSM Practitioners
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Emma
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