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In this episode, we meet Gala, the Mum of Hedon House—a queer BDSM sanctuary designed for ritual, pleasure, and deep erotic inquiry. This conversation explored the philosophy of erotic hospitality, how Gala curates objects and atmosphere for psychological safety, and why perversion can be a path to power.
We explore:
What it means to be a “pervert” as a creative, ethical identity.
The difference between producing eroticism vs. performing it.
Why design is a form of invisible consent.
The healing power of queer BDSM sanctuaries.
How being the Mum of Hedon House has shaped Gala’s erotic philosophy.
And more!
Research Article: Kinky & Queer: Exploring Experiences of LGBTQ+ Individuals Who Practice BDSM.
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Want to be part of edgy research exploring the qualitative nature of the female orgasm? Anyone can participate! Take the Her Climax Code Female Orgasm Survey and contribute to the #02 Psychology of Desire Case File on female orgasm released later this month. Link here.
Psychology of Desire has two courses soon available: Activate Your Desire and Decode My Desire exclusively for podcast listeners and Substack readers. These early-access courses explore your unique erotic psychology. Link here.
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Thanks for listening!
Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
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