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#16 The Dark Feminine Submissive: Rope, Rebellion & Erotic Surrender
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#16 The Dark Feminine Submissive: Rope, Rebellion & Erotic Surrender

What happens when submission becomes a source of power?

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In this episode of The Erotic Realm, I speak with Hazel: a 25 year old rope switch and erotic writer - about the transformative power of BDSM, shadow work, and dark feminine desire.

We explore:

  • How rope, pain, and submission became tools for healing and empowerment

  • The psychological impact of chronic pain and how BDSM reframed it

  • What it means to be collared, owned, and deeply seen in a D/s dynamic

  • The role of shadow work and erotic ritual in her journey

  • A live reading of Hazel’s own erotic writing

Research discussed: Curative Kink – Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM

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M

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