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In this episode, I sit down with Lou, a 38-year-old switch who describes her sexuality as fluid and fiercely psychological.
We discuss:
What it means to be a switch in BDSM and the freedom of role fluidity
Mindfucking and psychological dominance as erotic tools
The inherited lineage of kink when your mother is also in the scene
How switching fosters deeper erotic self-knowledge
Common misconceptions about switches and how Lou navigates them
Her approach to reading a partner’s readiness in dominance
The power of submission in unlocking hidden parts of self
Research Article: Switch it up’: A Qualitative Analysis of BDSM Switches
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Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
