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#26 Healthy Masculinity & Queer Dominance: Biker Bear on Sadism, Power & Play
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#26 Healthy Masculinity & Queer Dominance: Biker Bear on Sadism, Power & Play

What does healthy masculinity look like in a world of dominance, sadism, and polyamory?

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In this episode, Melbourne-based kinkster Biker Bear shares his journey through power, pleasure, and queer identity.

We discuss:

  • The Key Elements of Healthy Masculinity.

  • Electrical play as erotic connection.

  • Why dominance isn’t control — it’s presence.

  • Sadism as serious identity.

  • A lived critique of toxic masculinity.

  • and more!

Research Article: ⁠Rethinking Kink: Sadomasochism as Serious Leisure⁠

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Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm

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