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#33 The Lesbian Cuckcake: Iris on Poly Desire, Triad Love & Healing
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#33 The Lesbian Cuckcake: Iris on Poly Desire, Triad Love & Healing

What does it mean to step into a 40-year love—and reshape it into a triad of submission, dominance, and devotion?

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In this third and final part of our relationship series, Iris shares her journey as the third partner of Master MissMarie (episode 31) and MelissaBound (episode 32). From embracing compersion to navigating the psychology of polyamory, Iris brings a unique perspective on love, kink, and erotic care.

We explore:

  • How Iris balances submission to MissMarie with domination of MelissaBound.

  • The psychology of compersion vs. jealousy in poly relationships.

  • Cuckquean & cuckcake identities explained through lived experience.

  • The healing power of BDSM.

  • Everyday rituals that keep erotic energy alive in a triad.

and much more!

Research article: ⁠Polyamorous Women, Sexual Desire, and Relationship Quality⁠

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Emma

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