In this episode, Valkyrie shares her journey from Pro-Domme to submissive pet. We explore the misunderstood kinks of ABDL, degradation, and regression, and end with her powerful reflection on self-domination.
You’ll hear about:
How she shifted from dominating others to surrendering herself — and what that taught her about power.
Petplay & ABDL: the emotional logic behind regression, care, and erotic release.
Degradation vs. liberation: when words sting, and when they open new erotic truths.
Why stigma around “dark” kinks often misses the intimacy behind them.
Valkyrie’s insight on being her own Dom — and why every submissive should cultivate inner authority.
Research Article: Sadomasochistically Oriented Behavior: Diversity in Practice and Meaning.
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Thanks for listening!
Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
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