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#39 From Wallflower to Domme: MsSugarSpice on Female led Relationships & Post-Menopause Awakening
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#39 From Wallflower to Domme: MsSugarSpice on Female led Relationships & Post-Menopause Awakening

What if the most powerful phase of your sexuality starts at menopause?

The Erotic Realm podcast explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. I’m your host Emma, a Psychosexuality nerd and kinkster. Join me for in depth, one on one conversations as I explore the fascinating world of eroticism, one Erotic Realm at a time.


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In this episode of The Erotic Realm Podcast, I sit down with MsSugarSpice, a 55-year-old Domme, cuckoldress, and writer who lives a 24/7 female-led relationship. Her story is one of transformation — from repression to erotic power, from silence to soulsexual expression, from wallflower to Dominant.

We explore:

  • Female-led relationships: daily rituals, dominance, and devotion.

  • Post-menopause sexuality as an erotic awakening.

  • Cuckolding as intimacy, not humiliation.

  • How kink became a tool for healing after trauma.

  • The importance of sharing erotic wisdom later in life

and more!

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p.s Want to explore my writing?

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The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1

What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires

The Secret Life of Your Desire

Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.

What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?

A Love Note To Men.

The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think

Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?

And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:

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  2. The Jung of Sex | The Individuation of Desire

  3. The Jung of Sex | The Erotic Mirror

  4. The Jung of Sex | The Archetypes of Desire

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