The Erotic Realm podcast explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality with the mission to humanise kinksters. I’m your host Emma, a Psychosexuality nerd and kinkster. Join me for in depth, one on one conversations as I explore the fascinating world of eroticism, one Erotic Realm at a time.
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In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Iya (MousyMistress) — a mystic Domme, minister, and self-described sacred spanko — about the healing, transcendent, and psychological dimensions of erotic pain.
We discuss:
• How erotic discipline and spanking became a path to self-knowledge.
• Why Jung’s shadow work applies to kink and erotic healing.
• What research says about pain as emotional release and transcendence.
• Iya’s live guided meditation for entering your Dominant self.
• How kink bridges spirituality, psychology, and power.
• The difference between cruelty and care in sacred sadism.
• A message for anyone seeking to integrate their desire and divinity.
Research article: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained?
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Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:
