The Erotic Realm podcast explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality with the mission to humanise kinksters. How I distribute the podcast has recently changed- to listen to the latest episode please click play on either the Apple Podcasts or Spotify link below (both will play without opening the apps if you open this email on substack).
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In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Lina Dune — writer, educator, and host of the hit podcast Ask A Sub — about the psychology of submission, feminist desire, and the edges of consensual non-consent.
We discuss:
• How Lina reframes submission as self-discovery, not self-abandonment.
• What makes feminist surrender so psychologically rich.
• The emotional truth behind CNC and exploring dark fantasy safely.
• How CNM can deepen honesty and communication in relationships.
• Why kink can be a mirror for both chaos and self-creation.
• The lessons Lina has learned from Ask A Sub about community and growth.
• A message for anyone learning to trust their desire.
Research discussed: On the Margins: Considering Diversity Among Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.
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Thanks for listening!
Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
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