The Erotic Realm podcast explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality with the mission to humanise kinksters. How I distribute the podcast has recently changed- to listen to the latest episode please click play on either the Apple Podcasts or Spotify link below (both will play without opening the apps if you open this email on substack).
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In this episode, writer and Dominant Athos Khan joins M to explore the intimate architecture of power, devotion, and consciousness inside monogamous kink.
We discuss:
• The Jungian concept of “making the darkness conscious” through BDSM.
• Monogamy as a site for transformation, not limitation.
• The flow state of dominance — where eroticism becomes meditation.
• The archetypes that shape desire and relationship roles.
• Emotional vs. sexual free use and what gendered desire reveals about intimacy.
Research Article: ‘You want to be swept up in it all’: illuminating the erotic in BDSM.
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Thanks for listening!
Stay perverted,
Emma
Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm
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p.s Want to explore my writing?
My Erotic Journey: From Repressed to Expressed
The Shadow’s Playground: When Suppressed Desires Visit Us in Dreams
The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins | Psychology of Desire: Case File #1
What Your Erotic Dreams Reveal About Your Deepest Desires
The Secret Life of Your Desire
Why Your Desires Are More Normal Than You Think.
What If Everything You Know About Men and Women Is Wrong?
The Hidden Key to Lasting Desire: It’s Not What You Think
Are Men and Women Wired Differently For Desire?
And don’t forget my Jung of Sex Series:
