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#75 Erotic Obsession & the Cost of Desire: Inside The Venus Fly Trap with Stephen Paul Edwards
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#75 Erotic Obsession & the Cost of Desire: Inside The Venus Fly Trap with Stephen Paul Edwards

What happens when erotic obsession stops being fantasy — and starts rewriting your reality?

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In this episode of I’m joined by author Stephen Paul Edwards to explore the psychological depths of his book The Venus Fly Trap — a story described as equal parts Fifty Shades, Gone Girl, and a therapy session with the devil.

In this episode, we explore:

  • The psychology of erotic obsession.

  • Fantasy vs manipulation in relationships.

  • What destabilising attraction reveals about ourselves.

  • Shame, secrecy, and the cost of silence.

  • Why writing the truth can change the body — not just the mind.

  • A live reading from the book.

Research article: Confronting a traumatic event: Toward an understanding of inhibition and disease.

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