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#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire
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#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire

What do your sexual fantasies reveal about you?

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The Erotic Realm podcast explores eroticism in all its forms, including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. It’s mission is to humanise eroticism one erotic realm at a time.


In this episode I’m joined by Cat Savard, founder of Good Ember, to explore the psychology and data behind our sexual fantasies.

Link to Survey data here: https://www.goodember.com/pages/surveys

We explore:

  • What our sexual fantasies and kinks might reveal about us.

  • What Cat’s Good Ember data is revealing about people’s fantasies.

  • The psychology of consensual non-consent (CNC).

  • Why people can fantasise about experiences they don’t literally want to happen.

  • Sexual communication and why sharing fantasies with a partner can feel so vulnerable.

  • How couples can become more curious about each other erotically.

Research article: The Role of Sexual Communication in Couples’ Sexual Outcomes: A Dyadic Path Analysis.

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Stay perverted,

Emma

Founder of Psychology of Desire | Host of The Erotic Realm


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